On this World Mental Health Day, the Life After Abuse Foundation (LAAF) delivered a message of hope and healing to boys and men struggling with drug addiction at the Lagos State Ministry of Youth and Social Development Rehabilitation Centre in Magodo, Isheri. LAAF, a leading non-profit organization dedicated to supporting individuals on their path to mental and emotional well-being, held an inspiring mental health awareness program that touched the lives of those battling addiction. The event brought together remarkable individuals and resources to share stories of triumph over adversity and to promote healthier masculinity living. The centrepiece of the event was a moving presentation by a guest speaker Damilola Agboola, who courageously shared his personal journey of overcoming drug addiction and living a fulfilling life. What made Damilola’s story even more inspiring is his battle with Schizophrenia, a condition that he has not only conquered but now uses to help others on the same path to recovery. Damilola’s message resonated deeply with the audience, offering them hope, inspiration, and a tangible example of transformation. His story serves as a beacon of light for those in the darkest of struggles, demonstrating that recovery is possible. Princess Rufus, the Program Officer of LAAF, took the stage to sensitize the boys and men on the importance of healthy masculinity living. Her insightful presentation encouraged attendees to embrace positive aspects of masculinity and reject harmful stereotypes, fostering an environment of respect and support. LAAF extends its heartfelt gratitude to its dedicated volunteers, Anjola Ademola-Osinuga and Tinuola Oyeniran, for their tireless efforts in making this event a success. Their commitment to improving the lives of those in need is truly commendable. Special thanks are also due to Mr. Tunde Bakare, the Principal of the Lagos State Ministry of Youth and Social Development Rehabilitation Centre in Magodo, Isheri, for generously providing the opportunity for LAAF to connect with the boys and men in need. His support and cooperation were invaluable in making this event possible. LAAF remains committed to its mission of promoting mental health and well-being for all boys and men, and events like this one exemplify the positive impact that can be achieved when a community comes together to support those in need. For more information about Life After Abuse Foundation and its ongoing initiatives, please visit www.laafng.org. Media Contact: Bola Daniel info@laafng.org About Life After Abuse Foundation (LAAF): Life After Abuse Foundation is a non-profit organization dedicated to providing support, education, and resources to boys and men on their journey to mental and emotional well-being. LAAF is committed to breaking the stigma surrounding mental health and promoting a world where everyone has the opportunity to lead a healthy and fulfilling life.

The holiday season, especially Christmas, is a time of reflection and hope. However, for men in rehabilitation and correctional centres, this festive period can be particularly challenging. During Christmas, the need to reach out to these individuals becomes even more pronounced. Many of them might feel estranged from the joys of the season due to their circumstances. The absence of family and community support can exacerbate feelings of loneliness and despair. Providing them with a sense of belonging, care, and hope during this time can make a significant difference in their lives. Esthers’ Company Fellowship in collaboration with Life After Abuse Foundation organised a donation drive and free medical check-up and psychosocial support to men at the Lagos State Correctional and Rehabilitation Centre, Magodo Isheri. The provision of free medical check-ups and care is crucial for these men as many may have neglected their health due to their situations, leading to untreated illnesses or chronic conditions, we offered free medical check up and addressed their immediate health needs to convey the message that their well-being matters, fostering a sense of dignity and care. The emotional and psychological toll of their experiences cannot be overstated. We offered free psychosocial support, including counselling and emotional guidance, providing a safe space for them to express themselves, process their feelings, and receive guidance on coping mechanisms and behavioural change. We donated essential items like foodstuff, medications and toiletries to address their basic needs, ensuring they have adequate personal hygiene items. Moreover, this symbolizes care, respect, and dignity, boosting their morale and self-esteem. Additionally, access to nutritious food supports their physical health, aiding in their recovery journey. We extend our deepest appreciation to Imoleoluwa Layeni, the visionary behind Esthers’ Company Fellowship Give-Back Initiative. She has been instrumental in spearheading this impactful project. Imoleoluwa’s unwavering commitment and dedication to serving the community have laid the foundation for the success of this noble cause. Her visionary leadership and compassionate spirit have inspired numerous individuals to join hands in making a meaningful difference in the lives of those in need this Christmas. The success of “Hope For Christmas Rehab Outreach for Men” was made possible by the generous support and collaboration of esteemed partners, sponsors, and donors. We extend our deepest gratitude to African Village, Ajebota Chef, BQ Fragrance Collection, Chidinma Ibemere Foundation, Diamonds in Disguise, Elbe Pharmacy, FA Catering Service, Gifted Hands Hair Studio (UK), Gleeworld Pharmacy, Ife Talks, Movement Architecture, Olori’s Creation, Penny Lender, Sentinel Barristers and Solicitors, Sinbol Group, Switly’s Bake Shop, and Tai Mah’s Catering. Our heartfelt appreciation goes out to our dedicated volunteers who wholeheartedly contributed their time and effort to this noble cause. Special thanks to Anthony Iduma, Beauty Onouha, Edinyanga Enang, Ifeoluwa Adesuwa, Ololade Awaya, Ladyann Crown, Lydia Ohonsi, John-Peter Ikegbule, Pinnacle Taiwo, Promise Taiwo, Sylvia Ofem, Tairat Layeni, and Toluse Francis for their invaluable support. As we celebrate this festive season, we encourage everyone to embrace the spirit of forgiveness, kindness, and compassion. Creating safe spaces and fostering a sense of inclusion for all individuals, especially men, contributes to a more compassionate society. In closing, we extend warm wishes for a Merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year in advance, filled with joy, hope, and renewed determination. _____ Life After Abuse Foundation is a non-profit organization dedicated to empowering boys and men globally. Through impactful methods such as media activism, community engagement, school outreaches, policy advocacy, and psychotherapy, the foundation extends sensitization, mentorship, and vital psychosocial support to boys and men in need. Email: info@laafng.org

Let’s seize this opportune moment to propel change, recognizing that mental well-being is pivotal to dismantling aggression and promoting healthy masculinity. Elevating men’s mental health in policy agendas aligns with our pursuit of global solidarity and a safer, equitable future. Together, let’s champion this cause and translate words into transformative actions. For many decades, resilient women and girls who have survived abuse have been leading the charge against violence. Their advocacy has led to the enactment of laws and policies, yet implementation remains a challenge. The rise of feminist movements, including the renowned #MeToo movement and the Every Woman Treaty, has held men accountable. Despite these efforts, the stark reality persists for countless women and girls worldwide, who continue to suffer rights violations. The scourge of violence against women and girls not only violates their fundamental rights but also corrodes the very foundation of our communities. To confront this complex issue, a comprehensive approach is needed that delves into its root causes, including a significant but often overlooked factor: men’s mental health. In 2020, I launched the Men Can End Violence Campaign to educate men and boys about healthy masculinity and mobilize them against violence towards women and girls. Through my work, I discovered that men and boys are also deeply impacted by societal norms, often concealing their pain and trauma, which contributes to lower reported cases of violence against them. While I firmly advocate for offering female survivors of abuse free access to psychosocial support, as a survivor of child sexual abuse myself, I can attest to the transformative power of proper support in recovery. Yet, I equally emphasize that extending mental health support to men could yield a more sustainable impact than merely addressing the surface symptoms. The perpetration of violence against women and girls often stems from men grappling with emotional turmoil, unresolved trauma, and societal pressures. Men struggling with mental health issues can become trapped in cycles of aggression and violence, harming themselves and those around them, particularly women and girls. It is essential to recognize that not all men with mental health challenges are violent, but untreated issues can heighten the risk of abusive behaviour. To genuinely eradicate violence against women and girls, global leaders must acknowledge the significance of providing men with accessible psychosocial support and declare the decline in men’s mental health a worldwide crisis. Effective solutions require an understanding that men’s mental well-being is integral to combating gender-based violence. World leaders have a vital role in raising awareness about the connections between mental health and violence. Designating men’s mental health as a global crisis would underscore the urgency and commitment to building a safer, more equitable world. Men’s mental health should be integrated into policies and programs targeting gender-based violence. Adequate resources and funding must be allocated to establish comprehensive support networks for men’s mental health, preventing their struggles from escalating into violence. By facilitating men’s access to psychosocial support, encouraging open dialogue, and weaving mental health initiatives into broader policies, we can shatter the cycle of violence, promote healthier masculinity, and forge a world where fear and oppression no longer hold sway. Let us rally together to make this vision a reality, urging world leaders to take a stand and foster lasting change for the better. I hereby make a clarion call to world leaders in the imminent UNGA session themed “Rebuilding Trust and reigniting global solidarity: Accelerating Action on the 2030 Agenda and its Sustainable Development Goals towards Peace, prosperity, progress, and Sustainability for All,” By addressing this critical dimension, we can decisively curb violence against women. Let’s seize this opportune moment to propel change, recognizing that mental well-being is pivotal to dismantling aggression and promoting healthy masculinity. Elevating men’s mental health in policy agendas aligns with our pursuit of global solidarity and a safer, equitable future. Together, let’s champion this cause and translate words into transformative actions.

To commemorate Mental Health Awareness Month in May and International Day of the Boy-Child on May 17, LAAF commenced a media campaign geared towards raising awareness of men’s mental health, the services provided by LAAF to support battered boys and men, and solutions available to reduce the decline in men’s mental health. LAAF featured on notable radio shows, web articles, and TV interviews. By increasing awareness and starting discussions, we can dismantle obstacles and inspire men to seek help when necessary, access appropriate assistance, and enhance their overall mental well-being. Change.Org We Create Change Initiative spotlights Halima Layeni’s petition to the United Nations to advance Mental Health Support for boys and men across the globe. Vision Africa Radio 104:1fm radio host, Triumph Chibuike features LAAF Mental Health Advocate, Lola Akinyele on the topic: Raising the Flag on Men’s Mental Health ARISE News correspondent, Temitope Fagbemi hosts LAAF Founder Halima Layeni in an exclusive interview on the Dangers of Neglecting Men’s Mental Health. Smooth 98.1fm radio host, Ayokunmi Kekere-Ekun featues LAAF Teens’ Coach Precious Ifeanyi on Empowering Boys as a Tool for Promoting Healthy Masculinity Halima Layeni Writes An Open Letter To The Honourable Minister Of Health To Seek Policy Changes in Advancing Men’s Mental Health in Nigeria Courtesy of Change.Org Nigeria Sunshine Series and Anti Suicide & Depression Squad features LAAF Founder, Halima Layeni on Twitter space on the topic Breaking The Stigma on Mental health Yaba Tech Radio 89.3fm host, Olufemi Legbe features LAAF Boy-Child Advocate, Seyifunmi Afolarin in an interview themed Action to Advance Boys Mental Health The News Development features op-ed by LAAF Founder, Halima Layeni on Creating an Equal World: The Urgent Need to Address Men’s Emotional Well Being and Rights

LAAF Wall of Fame recognizes the outstanding dedication and hard work of exceptional volunteers who have greatly contributed to the growth and development of the organisation through their unwavering sacrifice and commitments. This month, we are honouring Bola Daniel, Daniel Obot, Imole Layeni and Seyifunmi Afolarin for their consistency in going above and beyond in their volunteer duties and their positive attitude and enthusiasm. Your efforts have not gone unnoticed and we are incredibly grateful for all that you do.  Bola DanielCommunications Officer Imole LayeniFundraising Officer Seyifunmi AfolarinTeens’ Coach Daniel ObotGraphic Designer

The Initiative for Public Art in Africa was established in 2013 in partnership with the Lagos State Ministry of Education. This youth-led, non-profit organization focuses on providing mentorship and workshops to students in government schools in Lagos, Nigeria. In attendance were 3 LAAF Program Facilitators; Ladyann Crown, Princess Rufus and Seyifunmi Afolarin. LAAF creative photographer, Kayode Sobalaje covered the program.

Kayode James, a teacher, activist, and humanitarian worker organized a mental health support program for boys in Kings International Secondary School, Bauchi, Nigeria. Kayode mobilized a team of 9 change makers in Bauchi in the persons of; Mary James, Faith Patrick Akut, Blessing Anthony, Akpe Scholastical, Zarah Umar, Ayuba Musa, Theophilus Emefesi Okafor, Rejoice Alhassan and Moses Mardam to sensitive 70 boys on emotional stability, women and girls’ rights and consent.

Team Kano visited Sasif Science College, Kano State to provide education and counselling to teen boys who have suffered abuse and trauma. According to experts, boys can struggle more than girls because they have fewer tools to cope with emotions and stressors, and they are less likely to get the help they need. LAAF is changing the narrative on boys’ mental health by normalizing the ides of boys breaking the silence culture and reaching out to seek help where needed.

Muhammed Usman, Founder, Young Developer Foundation teams up with Life After Abuse Foundation to provide Mental Health Education to more than 300 teen boys in Kano State. Muhammed mobilized a team of 10 inspiring change leaders in his community to implement 3 projects in secondary schools in Kano State. The names of the team members are; Auwal Susan, Ibrahim Adamu, Kareematu Bello, Abdussamad Umar, Salima Sulaiman, Khadija Adamu, Auwal Susan, Ibrahim Adamu, Abubakar Binoni and Hannatu Adam.